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What do you do when a child assaults you?

A few years ago, a relative’s shop was robbed by a 17-year old. He was caught, but when they brought him to the police, he mocked our relative by saying that they can’t file a case against him because he’s under 18. This 17-year old, FYI, has nine robbery records already. But still, he hasn’t been charged of any crime.

People would say he’s just a kid and that he doesn’t know what he’s doing. Pagkatapos bang maireport sa pulis ng siyam na beses, hindi pa ba niya alam ang ginagawa niya? Hindi pa rin ba siya maitama ng magulang niya? I believe he knows damn well what he was doing.

I haven’t studied the Juvenile Law in detail, but I think it needs to be re-checked. Or, if we could actually file a case, the police needs to stop discouraging us not to file a case because the kid is a minor. Call me heartless, but if I were in our relative’s shoes, I would have filed a case. But he didn’t. Sayang.

I was reminded about this incident from a few years back because just yesterday, as we were heading home from our appointment at PAGIBIG, a street child assaulted us. We were stopped in the stop light where Meralco Avenue and Ortigas Avenue intersects. A child, around 13 or 14 years of age, started knocking on our door asking for coins. Since we don’t make it a habit to give coins to beggars and we didn’t have food in the car, we waved our hand to signal that we have nothing to give.

The child started banging on the driver’s seat window harder and harder. When we didn’t give in, I thought he’d walk away already but instead, he tried to force open the back door where my two toddlers were seated. Imagine my horror! Thankfully, the doors were locked and he didn’t try to break the window. And thankfully, the signal turned green so we were able to drive off already.

I wasn’t able to take a photo of the child because I was too scared to open the windows or even stay there even for just a few more seconds. The boy looks stoned. And, we all know that there is a modus going on that if you go down your car, someone can come in and get your car…together with everything and everyone inside. I couldn’t risk the safety of my children.

When these things happen, what do you do? I wanted to go to the nearest police station and report the case, but I had no idea where it is located. I didn’t see a uniformed personnel around as well so I had no one to report the incident to that very moment. If there was someone there, the child would have been brought to custody. Or, it would not have happened at all.

I cannot believe I child would do such a violent act. I know the Juvenile Law was passed to protect the children of the Philippines. But, are these kids really victims of their situation? I’ve heard and read hundreds of stories of children who have nothing, but still persevered against all odds and were able to lift themselves up from the rut they are in. Even without parents. I met some of these children during our encounters back when I was in Ateneo. I’ve seen their stories in MMK, too. Heck, my own husband came from a poor family who did everything they can to get out of their situation–even if it meant entering the academy despite wanting to study Architecture. So I don’t think they are victims at all. They have a choice–to stay in the streets, committing crimes, or strive to live a better life.

As the saying goes: “If you are born poor it’s not your mistake, but if you die poor it’s your mistake.”

I think it’s time for something to be done about these incidents with children. I know they are children, but they need to be taught a lesson as well.

Be careful everyone!

Kimberley Reyes

Kimberley Reyes is an Online Business Manager for entrepreneurs who are ready to get off the hamster wheel and step into their CEO shoes. On top of helping her clients get organized and scale their businesses, she is also happily busy raising her five kids with her firefighter husband.

This Post Has 4 Comments

  1. Mamanee (@mamaneesnest)

    Oh my Kim, so glad nothing bad happened to you, your husband and the mini’s. In the U.S. they have juvenile detention – I’m not saying the Philippines should too, but I absolutely agree with you that the law should be re-visited. There is too much abuse of the youth for crimes. This needs to stop now.

    1. Kimberley Reyes

      I used to just see this in the news, but when it happened to us, my goodness. Iba. My heart was pounding even until we reached home. It made me not want to commute at all or even drive out of our town alone. Nakakatakot! The Juvenile Law really needs to be revisited. The kids (and maybe a syndicate behind it) are using it to do unjust acts against others.

      1. Rhea

        Hi kim! Rhea obrique here.. 4 years ago, my mini necklace was snatched by an 11 year old kid in cebu.. Like the youth in your story, the snatcher had already a string of reports re:snatching in downtown cebu. Luckily, i was able to recover the necklace with the help of an off-duty cop albeit broken already.. Anyways, at the barangay hall, the child sneered at me and said that he can’t go to jail because he was still a minor.. And because i was too overpowered with wrath that better judgment left me, i agreed with the kagawad that the child should receive what he ought to receive as punishment for his misdeed and habitual deliquency (I think ginulpi nila). kaya i agree with you that the said law should be amended. Our laws should not put too much premium in minority especially with the fact that children 2 decades ago are so different with children now

        1. Kimberley Reyes

          Hi Rhea! Good thing the kid who snatched your necklace got caught! I was too scared to even stop and look back. I couldn’t imagine what might have happened if my kids’ door was unlocked, or if the boy broke the window.

          I’ve heard lots of similar cases of children doing crimes. The fact that they know they won’t go to jail should already be a signal that it’s time that we amend this law. Malalakas na loob eh!

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